12.3.09

Let's Get This Wedding Thing Started

I'm going to be m.i.a for about 5 days because we're doing our wedding trip, and hopefully when I come back, we'll have a venue to call ours and this whole planning thing can actually go somewhere! Yes!

Today I semi-panicked talking to a coworker who is also getting married in 2010. Here's how it went.

Me: So, have you been looking at any venues?
CW: Oh yeah, we already set a date at XXX for 2010.
Me: Oh cool...that's really nice to get things out of the way so soon.
CW: Yeah...Well, they only had one date available in 2010 so we had to act fast.

**Blinks twice, slowly looks up from cup of coffee**

Me: ...I'm sorry...one date?? Like, one date in the month you wanted, or one date the entire year of 2010?
CW: No, no, one date for all of 2010. It's all they had so we took it. Where are you getting married?
Me: Oh...um, we have several possibilities...that I hope are still possible. Heh.
**Scratches head**
Well, um, I'll see you later!

**Quickly throws away trash and bounces back to computer silently hoping all of 2010 isn't completely booked for all venues in California**

See you next week!
Moo

11.3.09

Move Over Red Velvet

[Image from Sprinkles Cupcakes]

Now you can get "green velvet" cupcakes at Sprinkles in honor of St. Patrick's Day. I don't think the green cupcake is working for me, it reminds me too much of mold. But maybe I'll give it a try when I visit Sprinkles this weekend. Would you eat a green cupcake?
Moo

10.3.09

How I Gained 15 lbs. (and then lost the weight)

Two words: gelato and pastry. In college I spent an amazing semester in Rome where I studied Art History, went to a whole lot of museums, traveled the country, and ate and cooked. A lot. My apartment was far from campus, so I had to walk along the streets of Rome each day, passing probably half a dozen gelaterie (pl. for gelateria) and a handful of pastry shops. I got really good at the phrase, "Un cono piccolo, per favore."

[The 24/7 bakery in Rome. Sadly, I don't have an address.]

There was even an ALL NIGHT bakery within walking distance of my apartment. If I wanted a chocolate croissant at 3 in the morning, I could get a chocolate croissant. Rough life, I know.

But my biggest weakness was the gelato. So if you are going to Rome for your honeymoon or for any trip, I highly recommend the following gelaterie:

[Heaven on a cone-- Old Bridge Gelateria, Rome]

OLD BRIDGE GELATERIA Via Bastioni di Michelangelo 5. Very close to the entrance to the Vatican Museums.
This is right next to the Vatican. I would get a large scoop of stracciatella (chocolate chip) or nocciola (hazelnut) on my way to school and be done with it by the time I got around to crossing the Tiber River. If you find yourself in a long line to see the Sistine Chapel, this is a nice way to pass the time.

GELATERIA MILLENNIUM Via Candia, across the street from Cipro Metro.
http://www.gelateriamillennium.it/index.html
This was directly below where I lived. Way too much temptation and late nights studying brought me to their doorstep to eat ice cream even in the freezing cold. Across the way was a chocolate shop which displayed brightly decorated chocolate eggs during Easter. This was like every dieter's nightmare. Good thing I wasn't dieting at the time!

I hadn't realized how much weight I had gained until I got home. My grandmother and uncle just came right out and told me I got chubby. My sister was getting married and we had to go to the seamstress to make my bridemaid's dress fit. None of my clothes fit anymore.

For someone who's only 5' 1" 1/2 (gotta note the 1/2") those extra 15 pounds made a big difference. I kept my Italy weight for years, partially because I simply didn't have the time or motivation to lose it, and partially because the boy and my friends were supportive, sensitive people and constantly told me that I didn't need to lose it.

And maybe I didn't need to lose it. I was hovering close to being overweight for my height and weight, but I was still within the "normal" limits.

But I sure wanted to. I wanted to be able to wear my old clothes again and lose the extra cheekage on my face. I never had enough motivation, until I read a book.

[French Women Don't Get Fat, by Mireille Guiliano]

The book, like anything else, isn't perfect. There are times when she makes losing weight sound like it should be a piece of cake by telling you to walk everywhere (a little impossible in San Diego,) buy groceries at the farmer's market, and savor each bite by chewing very slowly.

She also has this recipe for leek soup which you're supposed to drink for two days straight as a 'reconditioning' before your diet. I did not attempt to make or drink any leek soup.

Honestly, I don't think the book would have worked on me if it hadn't been for the opening chapters about how she gained the weight. She had studied abroad in the U.S. (she is from France) and gained the weight while having a fabulous time chowing down on hamburgers and ice cream. And then she gained even more weight while she studied in Paris and picked up a pastry or two on the walk to school. It sounded all too familiar.

So, I did listen to some of Mireille's advice, and after 3 months of semi-following her instructions, I lost the 15 lbs!! I feel so much more confident and happy at this weight, and I think the 3 months of sacrifice was totally worth it.

Here's what I did. And, oh man, it was NOT easy!
- I kept a food journal. I didn't write all the calories, I just quickly jotted anything I ate down in the notebook. Eating anything became a conscious decision because I had to put pen to paper each time.

- I found out (shocker!) that my weaknesses were sweets and pasta. So I cut down my pasta, and substituted sweets with yogurt and fruit. I didn't allow myself any cookies, cakes, cupcakes, candies, milkshakes, frappuccino drinks...you get the picture. I did, however, buy a really fancy chocolate bar and would allow myself a small piece every couple of days. But then I'd have to write it down.

- I only drank water, and drank about 4-6 glasses a day.

- I would ask for a take-out box before I started any restaurant meal. I put a small portion of the meal in it before I started chowing down.

- I worked out 4-5 days a week, usually running a mile on the treadmill and then doing light weights.

- I ate oatmeal for breakfast. every. single. morning.

- I tried to keep my diet on the down low. I didn't want anyone convincing me not to go ahead with it, which did happen from time to time. And I'm so glad that I did--I feel much better than I used to.

I'm proud I stuck with it, and now I take a fun aerobics class and go running on the treadmill a few times a week for exercise. If you've read this far, thanks for reading about my love affair with gelato and pastry. We're doing just fine these days.
Moo

6.3.09

Woohoo! I Own a Scanner!

I am now the proud owner of a CanoScan LIDE 200. 
I've been playing with it and these are some things I scanned that make me happy. 

[Card in a Jip and Janneke card game--too sweet, no?]

[Card in a Dick Bruna card game. Dick Bruna is the illustrator of Miffy, one of my favorite illustrated characters. Like Hello Kitty except Dutch.]

[Postcard from Dim Sum Flash Postcards]

[A doodle I did one morning at work on a post-it, which later became inspiration for my last gocco project]

[A hand-made coin purse I bought from Spitalfields Market in London]

[A coin purse my cousin gave to me as a going away present when I moved to San Diego]

[A frame I bought in a children's store in Rotterdam. The artwork inside is from a calendar page by Good on Paper Design]

Moo

Things That Happened To Me This Week

+ Something very exciting happened to me, but I'm going to wait to divulge to keep it a surprise. I know, you're on the edge of your seat to find out. Don't lie. I can tell you that it's wedding-related, but that's all I'm revealing. I swear. You just gotta hold your horses for a few weeks.

+ I had a really embarrassing/traumatic experience at work yesterday. I was walking back from lunch, and as I was walking past some offices, someone opened a door which hit me in the head and knocked me over. You know those slapstick comedies in which someone is riding a bike or on roller blades or jogging and all of the sudden slips and falls or hits a tree branch or an anvil hits them? Well, I'm pretty sure it looked something like that, except there was no laughing and it totally hurt!
I had a massive headache and nausea, and the boy actually picked me up from work. We called the nurse to make sure it wasn't a concussion, and then he brought me home with some tylenol and ice cream.

There's a sign on that door now warning people to open it slowly.

+ My mother didn't like the dress.

[Image from Christos]

I know, Krista, I was really disappointed too. What's a girl to do?
Back to the dressing room...

+ I bought more gocco supplies and a brand new scanner! I may just devote an entire post to random things I can scan later.

Phew. On top of everything, the boy has finals which unfortunately affects my sleeping pattern too. Attached at the hip indeed.

But thank goodness it's Friday. Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!


Moo

3.3.09

We're Going Places

A lot of places actually. In about a week, I'm taking some vacation days and we're heading up north to the San Francisco Bay Area to take a look at some venues, meet a possible photographer, try on dresses and eat a bunch of cupcakes...y'know, just in case we DO decide to have it in the Bay and need to know what four of the local cupcakeries have to offer to us. Mmmhmm. You can probably guess whose idea it was to go to four bakeries.

Anyway, it's a lot to accomplish in four days (and a lot of driving) but I am so excited. I'm excited to be close to finally deciding where we are going to get married. Because I still have the dilemma of what city to have the event.

Do we have it in the city that we currently live in, or the city where all of our family lives? I would say more than 75% of our guest list lives in the San Francisco Bay Area, which is a good one hour plane ride or eight hour drive from our itty bitty apartment in San Diego.

Do we make it convenient for us, or convenient for them? And if we made it convenient for us, would everyone hate us for being selfish and making them spend the weekend in San Diego?

I'll probably take a tip from the Gilmores and do a pro/con list, but in the meantime I'm just going to enjoy all of the pretty places we are going to visit and seeing my family for the first time since the engagement.

Here's where we are headed:

1. The Outdoor Art Club


2. The UC Berkeley Botanical Garden

[Photo by Don Prichard Photography via UC Botanical Gardens]

You can see it in all its glory here.

3. The Dunsmuir Hellman Historic Estate


4. The Headlands Center for the Arts

[Photo by Once Photography]


You might recognize this venue from here.

5. The Brazilian Room


You may have seen the Brazilian Room here.


Has anyone gotten married or attended a wedding at any of these venues?
Moo

1.3.09

Hello Gocco.

For my birthday last year, the boy bought me a gocco, and my very generous coworkers bought my supplies. I was SO excited and thankful. I knew that I wanted to make our invites, save the dates, programs, and various other cards with the gocco, so I was super happy that I received it as a present.
Fast forward to today, in which gocco is no longer being produced and supplies are running out fast. I've recently just stocked up on supplies, but I'm worried they won't last me. I have to make the most of what I have. I do think I have enough for our wedding, I just need the paper. And the design.
I plan to hand write and illustrate our invites, so I practiced today by making a "hello" postcard. I had a disastrous first gocco experience in which I used up three screens and somehow got red paint all over my arms. It was not fun trying to clean off that red ink.

BUT I'm proud to report that today's go was much more successful! I was prepared with paint remover, q-tips, and a squeegee (aka, an old rewards card.)

I'm excited to design our wedding paper stuffs now, it should {hopefully} be fun!


[Here's my original all strapped and ready to be made into a screen. I just drew the flowers and wrote "hello" with the carbon pen. This is the point where I quickly hopped on the computer and watched a gocco tutorial just in case, especially after my disastrous gocco trial last summer.]

[Here's the finished product in gold ink! Yay it worked!]

[A close up of the text]

[A close up of the flowers]

[Some duds that are missing ink in several areas, and I tried it on yellow but didn't love it.]
Moo
 

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